Find the Good

rosesI’m the first to admit that I am a skeptic. I’m always the one saying, “Yeah, but…” in any conversation. However, I have discovered skepticism is not synonymous with pessimism.

This was brought home to me when an acquaintance recently toured my gardens and did nothing but point out the weeds.

“Oh, look,” she exclaimed, her finger quivering as she pointed. “There’s a weed underneath that bush.”

I squinted. Sure enough, a weed was sprawling at the feet of a beautiful pink Knock-Out Rose.

She did this three more time during the tour. She never once mentioned the flowers.

After she left, I wondered what her life must be like since she seemed incapable of seeing anything but weeds. Skeptic though I am, I go through life looking at the roses.

Jacket.aspxIf you like the philosophy of looking at the flowers and not the weeds, I highly recommend the book Find the Good by Heather Lende. The book description says it all:

As the obituary writer in a spectacularly beautiful but often dangerous spit of land in Alaska, Heather Lende knows something about last words and lives well lived. Now she’s distilled what she’s learned about how to live a more exhilarating and meaningful life into three words: find the good. It’s that simple–and that hard.

Nonfiction Can Be Fun: 10 LOL Titles About Serious Subjects

I almost fell off my chair last week when a friend told me he never reads nonfiction because it was boring and no fun. As I madly started listing nonfiction books that I had enjoyed, he held up his hands. Although I had been, ahem, speaking vehemently, it was a gesture of appeasement, not protection. He liked to learn things, he explained, but couldn’t stand being bored by dry dissertations. He asked if I could come up with ten books that were instructional and fun.

You betcha!

Economics
BoomerangBoomerang: Travels in the New Third World by Michael Lewis
A candid and humorous look at the global financial crisis of 2002-2009. Lewis examines five cultures that were hit hard: The Icelanders, who wanted to stop fishing and become investment bankers. The Greeks, who wanted to turn their country into a piñata stuffed with cash and allow as many citizens as possible to take a whack at it. The Germans, who wanted to be even more German. The Irish, who wanted to stop being Irish. And the Americans, who were “Too Fat to Fly”.

Language
HolyHoly Shit: A Brief History of Swearing by Melissa Mohr
With humor and insight, Melissa Mohr takes readers on a journey to discover how “swearing” has come to include both testifying with your hand on the Bible and calling someone a *#$&!* when they cut you off on the highway. You will definitely learn some new words.

 

Grammar
eatsEats, Shoots, and Leaves: The Zero Tolerance Approach to Punctuation
by Lynne Truss
Former editor Lynne Truss, gravely concerned about our current grammatical state, boldly defends proper punctuation. Using examples from literature, history, neighborhood signage, and her own imagination, Truss shows how meaning is shaped by commas and apostrophes, and the hilarious consequences of punctuation gone awry. Think “sign fail photos” you see on Facebook.

 

Science
stuffStuff Matters: Exploring the Marvelous Materials that Shape Our Man-made World
by Mark Miodownik
Why is glass see-through? What makes elastic stretchy? These are the sorts of questions that renowned materials scientist Mark Miodownik constantly asks himself. Full of tales of the miracles of engineering that permeate our lives, Stuff Matters will make you see stuff in a whole new way. Investigate chapters titled “Invisible” and “Immortal” and the all-important “Delicious”.

Art
lookingWhat Are You Looking at? The Surprising, Shocking, and Sometimes Strange Story of 150 Years of Modern Art
by Will Gompertz
What is Modern Art? Who started it? Why do we love/hate it? And, most importantly, why does it cost so darn much? Will Gompertz takes the reader on a captivating tour of modern art, telling the story of the movements, the artists and the works that changed art forever. Refreshing, irreverent, and extremely accessible, this is art history with a sense of humor

Sports
peaceNow I Can Die in Peace: How ESPN’s Sports Guy Found Salvation with a Little Help from Nomar, Pedro, Shawshank, and the 2004 Red Sox
by Bill Simmons
No more worrying about living an entire life — that’s 80 years, followed by death — without seeing the Red Sox win a World Series. But then Bill Simmons began asking questions: Why didn’t he see it coming? Why didn’t it happen sooner? What was the key deal, the lucky move, the sign from above that he failed to spot? The result is a hilarious look at some of the best sportswriting in America, with sharp critical commentary and new insights from the guy who wrote it in the first place.
Philosophy
poohThe Tao of Pooh
by Benjamin Hoff
The how of Pooh? The Tao of who? The Tao of Pooh!?! In which it is revealed that one of the world’s great Taoist masters isn’t Chinese–or a venerable philosopher–but is in fact none other than that effortlessly calm, still, reflective bear. Learn the How of Pooh, the Now of Pooh and all about Cottleston Pie.

 

Geography
BlissThe Geography of Bliss: One Grump’s Search for the Happiest Places in the World
by Eric Weiner
Travel from America to Iceland to India in search of happiness, or, in the crabby author’s case, moments of “un-unhappiness.” The book uses a beguiling mixture of travel, psychology, science, and humor to investigate not what happiness is, but where it is. With chapter titles that assert that “Happiness is Boredom” and “Happiness is Somewhere Else” how can it miss?

 

History
MentalThe Mental Floss History of the United States: The (Almost) Complete and (Entirely) Entertaining Story of America
by Erik Sass with Will Pearson and Mangesh Hattikudur
Featuring episodes from history that fall under titles such as “Drunk and Illiterate” and “Time for Your Bloodbath” this book is an entertaining and educational look at America’s past. So if you are in an “Empire State of Mind” and are wondering about “Sex, Drugs, and Mocking Roles” take a smiling stroll through the pages of this offbeat, memorable book.

Travel
RoadWay Off the Road: Discovering the Peculiar Charms of Small Town America
by Bill Geist
Who wouldn’t love a travel book that has chapters like “The Church of the Holy BBQ”, “The Cow Photographer”, and “Frozen Dead Guy”?

 

 

 

10 Good Books for Aunties’ Day

Did you know about Aunties’ Day? It is the fourth Sunday in July, a celebration of aunts that I, frankly, had never heard of. But I delved into the subject without a qualm and made some interesting discoveries about aunts in fiction.

First of all, fictional aunts spend a great deal of time raising the children of their siblings:

HistoryThe History of Us
Two decades after the tragic accident that killed their father, Theodora, Josh, and Claire return to their childhood home to confront painful realities about their incapable mother and the devoted aunt who raised them.

First Time in Forever Forever
From becoming a stand-in mom to her niece, Lizzy, to arriving on Puffin Island, Emily Donovan’s life has become virtually unrecognizable. Between desperately safeguarding Lizzy and her overwhelming fear of the ocean that surrounds her everywhere she goes, Emily has lost count of the number of “just breathe” talks she’s given herself. And that’s before charismatic yacht club owner Ryan Cooper kisses her.

And they are frequently in danger:

ForgottenThe Forgotten
After he receives a posthumous note from his aunt hinting that things are horribly amiss in her Florida Gulf Coast town, Army Special Agent John Puller uncovers a shocking conspiracy.

secretThe Secret Life of Violet Grant
Manhattan, 1964. When Vivian Schuyler, newly graduated from Bryn Mawr College, receives a bulky overseas parcel in the mail, the unexpected contents draw her inexorably back into her family’s past, and the hushed-over crime passionnel of an aunt she never knew, whose existence has been wiped from the record of history.

However, aunts have their outrageous/extravagant sides, too:

WoostersThe Code of the Woosters
Aunt Dahlia demands that Bertie Wooster help her dupe an antique dealer into selling her an 18th-century cow-creamer. Dahlia trumps Bertie’s objections by threatening to sever his standing invitation to her house for lunch, an unthinkable prospect given Bertie’s devotion to the cooking of her chef, Anatole. A web of complications grows but never fear! As usual, butler Jeeves rescues Bertie from being arrested, lynched, and engaged by mistake!

Great-Aunt Sophia’s Lessons for BombshellsSophia
Grace Cavanaugh, who is hell-bent on proving her Women’s Studies dissertation thesis that beauty only leads to misery, didn’t reckon on her great-aunt Sophia, a former B-movie star, transforming her into a femme fatale who purrs for her suitors … or devours them.

But aunts are always there when we need them:

BellfieldBellfield Hall, or The Observations of Miss Dido Kent
Visiting Bellfield Hall to comfort her niece, who has been seemingly abandoned by her wealthy fiancee, Miss Dido Kent investigates the possibly related death of a young woman, a situation that is complicated by surprising secrets and an unexpected romance for Dido.

 

SecretsSecrets of the Lighthouse
Ellen Trawton is running away from it all – quite literally. She is engaged to marry an aristocratic man she doesn’t love, she hates her job, and her mother…well, her mother is not a woman to be crossed. So Ellen escapes to the one place she knows her mother won’t follow her – to her aunt’s cottage on Ireland’s dramatic Connemara coast.

Even if we don’t exactly get along with them:

FlightFlight Lessons
For sixteen years Anna has studiously avoided her Aunt Rose. Exchanging cards at holiday time — that’s as far as Anna is willing to go with the woman she once loved more than anyone else in the world. That love died the night Rose betrayed Anna and her mother — Rose’s fatally ill sister — and Anna can’t forgive or forget. But when Anna needs an escape, the only place for her to go is home: to the family, to the restaurant, to Rose, who has been trying for more than a decade to regain Anna’s trust.

 

And let’s not forget the greatest aunt of all the aunts of fiction:

MameAuntie Mame
Mame is the world’s most beloved, madcap, devastatingly sophisticated, and glamorous aunt. She is impossible to resist, and this hilarious story of an orphaned ten-year-old boy sent to live with his aunt is as delicious a read in the twenty-first century as it was in the 1950s.

 

 

 

My Angry Birds Obsession

Okay, I’ll admit it. I’m addicted to Angry Birds.

It started innocently enough. When I got my new iPhone, my daughter said the game was fun and urged me to download the app. Why not, I thought. Everyone else was doing it.

At first, it seemed harmless. Cute little angry birds smashing fat, smug-looking pigs into oblivion. I quickly became adept.

And then new birds were introduced. They did cool things like explode and split into three separate birds. I learned which were good against glass and which against the wood structures those grinning little pigs erected. The exploding bird was great for stone. I got an unholy satisfaction from blowing pigs up.

IAngry5 even found a great book, Learn to Draw Angry Birds. Now I could doodle Angry Birds in the moments when I couldn’t play the game.

Soon, it was no longer enough to just win a level with one star. I had to get three stars. ON EVERY GAME. I would try for hours to get that lone two-star game up to three stars. One-star wins began to feel like losses.

That should have been a warning sign, but I was too far gone. I conquered all the levels in the original Angry Birds game. I needed more. On to Angry Birds Rio. I ran my phone down playing Angry Birds.

My daughter must have seen my plight, for she intervened. She introduced me to Trivia Crack.

Gee, I thought. Everyone else is doing it. It seems harmless…

 

If you can’t get enough of Angry Birds, here are some more titles to feed your addiction… Um, I mean, give you more information.

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How to Have Fun at Work

We seem to have a lot of fun at our library.

For instance, we have a regular staff storytime. Louise, our Social Media Coordinator, chooses picture books and reads aloud to us. During our last session she read Rosie Revere, Engineer by Andrea Beatty and Kid Sheriff and the Terrible Toads by Bob Shea (complete with western accent!). We sat on the floor as she read the stories and showed us the pictures. We applauded. Then we all helped each other stand back up.

Want to have fun at work? Try some of our methods:

Dress up Elvis as Darth Vader.

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2015-05-08 12.13.30Create a Truffula Tree.

(If you don’t know what a Truffula tree is, read The Lorax by Dr. Suess.)

Keep dolls nearby.

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And cats and frogs. And iguanas. (At least, we think it’s an iguana.)

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2015-05-13 12.25.50Keep an M&M dispenser on your desk.

Include a scoop for those who need extra sustenance.

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Make a money tree.

When people ask you for money, point to it.

 

 

 

Hang out with celebrities.

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Pose for a group photo.CPL Banner4 (Dogs optional.)

bookfaceOr a Book Face.

 

 

 

 

 

If you’d like some other ideas about having fun at work, try these titles.

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