Everybody’s Got a Story – 10 New and Upcoming Memoirs

What is a memoir?

Memoir (from French: mémoire, meaning memory or reminiscence), is a literary subcategory of the autobiography, usually a collection of memories that an individual writes about moments or events that took place in the author’s life. Like most autobiographies, memoirs are written from the first-person point of view.  Where an autobiography tells the story of a life, while memoir tells a story from a life, such as touchstone events and turning points from the author’s life.

Memoirs have seen a major surge in popularity in recent years. The old adage “everyone has a book in them” seems to be coming true! Some hypothesize that the growing popularity of social media and reality television shows has increased the public’s appetite for reading memoirs. Whatever the reason, there are more and more published every year. Here are a few of the new and noteworthy memoirs being published in 2014:

 

20140308-111154.jpgI Forgot to Remember by Su Meck. the story of an amnesia survivor who permanently lost all of her memories after a traumatic brain injury and who endured a more than 25-year effort to relearn basic skills and reclaim her life. In her own indelible voice, Su offers us a view from the inside of a terrible injury, with the hope that her story will help give other brain injury sufferers and their families the resolve and courage to build their lives anew.

20140308-111240.jpg Little Failure by Gary Shteyngart. A candid, witty, deeply poignant account of his life, Shteyngart shares his experience a young Russian immigrant, moving back and forth through time and memory with self-deprecating humor, moving insights, and literary bravado. It is a memoir of a Jewish family leaving Russia and coming to America, as told by a lifelong misfit who forged from his imagination an essential literary voice and, against all odds, a place in the world.

20140308-111032.jpg Out of the Woods by Lynn Darling. After her daughter leaves home for college, the author, a widow, embarks on a journey of self-discovery that leads her from New York to Vermont where she, with her dog and a compass, maps out a new direction for her life while adapting to the solitude of her new surroundings. Combining the soul-baring insight of Wild, the profound wisdom of Shop Class as Soulcraft, and the adventurous spirit of Eat, Pray, Love: Lynn Darling’s powerful, lyrical memoir of self-discovery, full of warmth and wry humor.

20140308-111312.jpg Paddle Your Own Canoe by Nick Offerman. The actor known for roles in such productions as Parks and Recreation shares whimsical musings on a range of topics from love and manliness to grooming and eating meat, offering additional discussions of his life before fame and his courtship of his wife, Megan Mullally.  A mix of amusing anecdotes, opinionated lessons and rants, sprinkled with offbeat gaiety, Paddle Your Own Canoe will not only tickle readers pink but may also rouse them to put down their smart phones, study a few sycamore leaves, and maybe even hand craft (and paddle) their own canoes.

Glitter and Glue20140308-111248.jpg by Kelly Corrigan. The author of the best-selling The Middle Place presents an account of her perspectives on motherhood, which have been shaped by her job as a nanny for a grieving Australian family and her character-testing experiences with her daughters. A book about the difference between travel and life experience, stepping out and stepping up, fathers and mothers; But mostly it’s about who you admire and why, and how that changes over time.

Duty20140308-111208.jpg by Robert M. Gates. The former Secretary of Defense and director of the CIA recounts his service under Presidents George W. Bush and Barack Obama during the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan, describing his roles in such major events as the Bin Laden raid, the Guantánamo Bay controversy and the WikiLeaks scandal.

Sous Chef20140308-111144.jpg by Michael Gibney. An executive sous chef who has worked alongside cooks from some of the nation’s leading restaurants documents an intense twenty-four-hour period that illuminates the allures and adversities of a professional culinary life.  Sous Chef is an immersive, adrenaline-fueled run that offers a fly-on-the-wall perspective on the food service industry, allowing readers to briefly inhabit the hidden world behind the kitchen doors, in real time.

Stronger20140308-111218.jpg by Jeff Bauman. Long-distance runner Bauman’s inspiring memoir of his experiences during the terrorist bombing at the 2013 Boston Marathon in which he lost both his legs and his ongoing mission to walk again.

Things a Little Bird Told Me20140308-111118.jpg by Biz Stone. Telling personal stories from his early life and careers, the co-founder of Twitter and one of today’s most successful businessmen shares his knowledge about the nature and importance of ingenuity today. Biz also addresses failure, the value of vulnerability, ambition, and corporate culture.

Hard Choices by Hillary Rodham Clinton. The former secretary of state, senator and first lady shares candid reflections about the key moments of her service in the Obama Administration as well as her thoughts about how to navigate the challenges of the 21st century.

Handling Questions About Bodies with Your Young Children

I think every parent dreads certain questions and discussions with their children. There are a thousand difficult things that we will need to discuss with them as they grow up, and no matter how well-prepared we think we are, they are bound to ask a question or make an observation we are unprepared for. In order to help us feel better about approaching the discussion about body differences, changes, and babies I put together a few book lists to help all of us.

In this post I will offer suggestions for parents in deciding what to say and when, and how to broach the body discussion with the youngest children that need to know why boys and girls are different, and why certain actions or questions might be inappropriate. I followed up that list with some book suggestions that you can share with even the youngest children to help explain matters.

There is another book list coming with suggestions for books intended for middle graders as well as preteens and teens.

Books for Parents:

1. What your Child Needs to Know about Sex (and when): a Straight-Talking Guide for Parents by Fred Kaeser

2. What’s the Big Secret?: Talking about Sex with Girls and Boys by Laurie Krasny Brown and Marc Brown

3. Everything you Never Wanted your Kids to Know about Sex, (but were afraid they’d ask): the Secrets to Surviving your Child’s Sexual Development from Birth to the Teens by Justin Richardson and Mark A. Schuster

4. It’s Perfectly Normal: a Book about Changing Bodies, Growing up, Sex and Sexual Health by Robie H. Harris; illustrated by Michael Emberley

5. Talking to Your Kids about Sex: from Toddlers to Preteens by Lauri Berkenkamp and Steven C. Atkins

6. Ten Talks Parents Must have with their Children about Sex and Character by Pepper Schwartz and Dominic Cappello

7. The Big Talk: Talking to your Child about Sex and Dating by Laurie Langford

Books for the Youngest Kids:

1. It’s Not the Stork!: a Book about Girls, Boys, Babies, Bodies, Families, and Friends by Robie H. Harris; illustrated by Michael Emberley

2. Amazing You: Getting Smart about your Private Parts by Gail Saltz; illustrated by Lynn Cravath

3. Who Has What?: All about Girls’ Bodies and Boys’ Bodies by Robie H. Harris; illustrated by Nadine Bernard Westcott

4. Human Body by Kathleen Weidner Zoehfeld

5. My Body by Andrea Pinnington and Penny Lamprell

6. Human Body by Margaret Hynes; illustrations, Andy Crisp

Need more suggestions? Just stop by the Children’s Room and the librarian on duty can point you in the right direction!

May Is National Blood Pressure Education Month!

Who cares? You should.

High blood pressure, also known as Hypertension, is known as the silent killer. High blood pressure often gives no warning signs, but can result in stroke, heart failure, kidney damage, and blindness. Occasionally, there may be subtle signs like ringing or buzzing in the ears, or a pounding heart. Next time you’re in busy place – an elevator, or mall, or even the doctor’s office – start counting. One in every four people has raised blood pressure – 25% of the population. Out of 100 people with blood pressure issues, only 68 of them are aware of their problem, and only 18 of those 68 will have it under control. Scary, isn’t it?

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Blood pressure is a measure of how hard the heart is working. You’re probably familiar with the two numbers – Systolic (the strength ofdial the heartbeat) over the Diastolic (how hard the heart squeezes at rest). Ideally, you want that number to be 120/80 millimeters of mercury (that mmHg you see on the dial). More than 130/85, and you’re getting into dangerous territory. More than 140, and you’ve got a problem.

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Sometimes high blood pressure runs in families; sometimes it’s due to diet, to being overweight, to certain medications, to certain conditions like diabetes, stress, or panic attacks. Alcohol consumption can raise blood pressure; so can salty foods (especially Ramen, or anything in a can or a box), common antihistamines and cold medications such as Sudafed, any “health” powders, supplements, or drinks containing Ephedra, illegal drugs such as cocaine, and of course, colas, Monsters, energy drinks, coffee, and tea.

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dm-wide-blood-pressure-20131115172644575592-620x349 One high reading is not a reason to panic. Blood pressure can fluctuate from day to day, even minute to minute. One false reading of high blood pressure is called “white coat hypertension” – people sometimes get nervous in a doctor’s office, or they’ve rushed on the way there and are stressed out. If your doctor takes a reading when he or she first comes into the office, ask to have it taken again just before you leave. Chances are, it will be lower the second time around. Another problem can be a blood pressure cuff that is too small – if you have big arms, whether due to fat or muscle, ask for the larger cuff. A cuff shouldn’t pop off while inflating – if it does, you’re not going to get a reliable reading. Blood pressure readings will also differ if someone is reading it by hand with a stethoscope or if a machine is doing it. Machines tend to read a higher score.

Sometimes blood pressure can be regulated by diet alone: low salt, lots of fruits and vegetables, and moderate exercise. Cut back on alcohol and caffeine (you’ll sleep better, too!). Get your stress under control. If all else fails, there are many good non-expensive medications with few side effects.

High blood pressure is one of those things you don’t want to fool around with, even if you feel perfectly fine. Someone you love is depending on you.

                       

 

May Is National Barbecue Month, National Hamburger Month and National Salad Month!

Who knew May was such a foodie month!  You can’t go wrong with barbecue or a juicy hamburger or a nice salad!  The Cheshire Library has just the books to get you started with some mouth-watering recipes!

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First, to clear up some confusion between grilling and barbecuing.  They are not the same!  Grilling involves cooking at intense heat (500 degrees or higher) for a short (an hour or less) period of time.  Barbecuing is cooking over low heat (225 degrees or less), and for a long period of time.  Below is a sampling of books the Cheshire Library has on barbecuing.

The Big Book of Barbecue: recipes and revelations from the barbecue belt.

Wicked Good Barbecue: fearless recipes from two damn Yankees who have won the biggest, baddest bbq competitions in the world.

BBQ Makes Everything Better

Serious Barbecue: smoke, char, baste, and brush your way to great outdoor cooking.

Barbecue Road Trip: recipes, restaurants, and pitmasters from America’s great barbeque

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The Book of Burger

Build A Better Burger

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Cooking Light Big Book of Salads

Mediterranean Fresh: a compendium of one-plate salad meals and mix-and-match dressings

Salad Daze: the Hot Knives vegetarian

Salad (William Sonoma)

Salad Days: main course salads for a first-class meal

The Cheshire Library has all cookbooks in a separate section (641) in the Reference Department.  The books listed above, and other similar titles, are located in the 641.7 and 641.8 section.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

10 Books We’re Looking Forward to in May

So many great books coming out in May, it’s hard to pick just ten!

Every month, librarians from around the country pick the top ten new books they’d most like to share with readers. The results are published on LibraryReads.org. One of the goals of LibraryReads is to highlight the important role public libraries play in building buzz for new books and new authors. Click through to read more about what new and upcoming books librarians consider buzzworthy this month. The top ten titles for May are:

  1. We Were Liars by E. Lockhart
  2. All the Light We Cannot See by Anthony Doerr
  3. The Bees by Laline Paull
  4. Delicious! by Ruth Reichl
  5. The Forgotten Seamstress by Liz Trenow
  6. Bird Box by Josh Malerman
  7. Bittersweet by Miranda Beverly-Whittemore
  8. Delancey: A Man, a Woman, a Restaurant, a Marriage by Molly Wizenberg
  9. Sixth Grave on the Edge by Darynda Jones
  10. The Blessings by Elise Juska